Sometimes I can’t believe that I used to be Miss Goody-Two-Shoes when I was young. Oh yes, the one word that appeared on my school report card under the column ‘Conduct’ was ‘Responsible’. And I took that really seriously too.
It’s fine to be ‘responsible’ but then it’s not too great when you start censoring every normal reaction to make sure it meets the approval of others! I found it difficult to be spontaneous. I’m happy to report that as I grow older, I’m learning not to care about what others think of me!
Don’t get me wrong here – it doesn’t mean that I give myself licence to be spontaneous at the cost of hurting other people. (That’s not spontaneity. That’s insensitivity, don’t you think?). I’m learning to be free of embarrassment and awkwardness and voice my true feelings better.

I’m learning to be free of unnecessary formality. So rather than stick to what’s prescribed by ‘polite’ society,  I now prefer doing what I think is the good thing to do at that particular  moment. In the process, I’m being nicer to me! And when I’m nicer to me, it’s easier to be kind to others too.

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I believe in kindness. Also in mischief. Also in singing, especially when singing is not necessarily prescribed. ~ Mary Oliver

What about you? Are  you spontaneous or guided by the ‘rules’? 

May you be inspired – everyday!