You used me Yes , you did. You used me You took my love and affection Used it to flatter your ego and add me to your possessions. You used me And I was a willing victim; Unconsciously perhaps, but willing no doubt. You used me. But did you really? I needed your love, your acceptance, your affection, I was willing to pay the price for it You didn't use me - we just bartered ourselves. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt Follow … [Read more...]
Thoughts On Long-Term Relationships
January 23, 2012 By 11 Comments
Today is a good day for me to pause and think of life-long commitment to another person. For today, my parents celebrate 61 years of marriage. I think of my own marriage and I reflect on what makes a 'good' marriage. I would like to ponder on what to me are the essentials of a long term relationship. Let me call them the 3A2CL formula. I've just outlined a few thoughts on each. Affection - Gestures of affection are not necessarily just holding hands, hugs and kisses (which are vital) but … [Read more...]
