Today is a good day for me to pause and think of life-long commitment to another person. For today, my parents celebrate 61 years of marriage. I think of my own marriage and I reflect on what makes a 'good' marriage. I would like to ponder on what to me are the essentials of a long term relationship. Let me call them the 3A2CL formula. I've just outlined a few thoughts on each. Affection - Gestures of affection are not necessarily just holding hands, hugs and kisses (which are vital) but … [Read more...]