Patience is something I struggle with. (Persistence too, as I’ve admitted!). But if I want to grow and learn, it’s one of the most important qualities to develop. Practising Patience In a recent study led by University of Chicago business professor, Ayelet Fishbach, people were asked to choose between winning a small prize immediately and larger prizes they would have to wait several weeks to claim. Perhaps unsurprisingly, 70 percent chose the smaller-sooner prize. I guess, we all struggle with practicing delayed gratification. A follow-up revealed that those who chose to wait treasured their rewards more highly than those who…
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Did you, like me, grow up reading the story of Robert the Bruce and The Spider? Try, try again was the moral we were told. Despite, this early learning, I confess that persistence is not one of my virtues. I know that about myself. There are plenty of drafts, ideas, unfinished embroidery projects, incomplete note-books that are a testament to my lack of persistence. Is Persistence Always Good If my mother were alive she’d vouch for my inability to be persistent. She was the epitome of persistence though. Mum would see ideas through and complete projects she started. She’d often…
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Bad habits can be dangerous if left unchecked. We know that. But do we even realise that some behaviours of ours are leading to bad habits. These negative behaviours, sometimes, become so routine that we perform them without thinking. Our perception and bad habits are closely connected. We think we can stop when we want. The truth is that many bad habits will eventually turn into addictions if they’re not solved as soon as possible. “You cannot change your future, but you can change your habits, and surely your habits will change your future.” Abdul Kalam Our Perception And Bad…