November has always seemed like a time for me to slow down and settle before the year wraps up. This month, I decided to focus on gratitude, viewing it not only as a habit but also as a way to perceive my daily life with greater kindness. What began as a simple intention soon unfolded into a month of small awakenings, quiet moments, and a deeper appreciation for the life happening right in front of me. Gratitude kept coming up, pushing for a change in mindset and a more gentle way of life.
As the weeks passed, I realized that gratitude can really make the difference between feeling peaceful or overwhelmed. Not the big, dramatic experiences, but the gentle, mindful awareness of goodness and stability, even when life is chaotic.
It’s amazing how gratitude can reduce stress. It directs our attention away from the unknown towards what is present, supporting us now. Life brings neither guarantees nor certainties. We can’t predict what will happen tomorrow. Yet, we have a choice in how we welcome each moment. Choosing gratitude—even when things are less than ideal—invites peace.
This became especially clear to me during a peaceful break in a quiet resort in Goa this month. Being in nature allowed my body and mind to relax deeply. Free from the usual distractions and to-do lists, I appreciated the little things: sunlight through the leaves, fresh poee, a Goan fish thali and the joy of leisurely mornings. Gratitude didn’t feel like a practice there; it felt like a natural response to the stillness. That time away reminded me how nourishing it is to step out of the familiar and simply be.
The more I practiced gratitude in November, the more I realised how deeply it anchors us in the present. By appreciating a kind remark, a warm cup of tea, or a difficult lesson, we can turn stressful circumstances into bearable ones. Through all the crazy stuff you’ve been through, you’ve become stronger, wiser, and found people to lean on. You show gratitude when you admit you’re scared but still move on, smile even when you’re sad, ask for help, and accept help with a good attitude. These small, brave moments remind you that even in vulnerability, you are strong. Gratitude won’t solve all your problems, but it helps you see the support you already have, which is everything you need to keep going, and it’s what makes room for grace.
As the year comes to an end, I plan to remember November’s lessons. I want to slow down, be present, and embrace gratitude. This is especially important when life feels unstable, to remember that peace isn’t about perfection.
I hope gratitude guides you and me into and past December, always reminding us to find things to appreciate, even on the hardest days.
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Love this…”gratitude can really make the difference between feeling peaceful or overwhelmed”
I’m glad that resonated with you, Barb. It’s been something that was reiterated so deeply to me this November.
You are so right – gratitude makes room for grace! Instead of focusing on frustrations or hurts, I’m training my soul-memory to start thanking God for the goodness – in the easy and the hard. Beautiful encouragement, Corinne!
I am glad to know you had such a peaceful time in Goa. It really is a wonderfully calming place. I have often wondered, is it possible to reach a stage where gratitude flows naturally, without consciously practicing it?
Reading this post, I questioned what is gratitude for me. Feeling joy in the moments, is it?