Careful. I sometimes wonder what that word really means. Does it mean avoiding risks? Or does it mean living life bogged down by cares?

If I take the first meaning, I remind myself  that I’ve often lived life too carefully. Too worried about hurting others. Too concerned about doing the right thing…. And yet, at the other end of the spectrum, I’ve indulged in risky behaviour too. Not been careful at all. Made terrible choices.

If I take the other meaning, I realize that I’ve been careful that way too – allowing worries to get me down.

Perhaps, the word really has a third meaning.

To live life as if you care. Care-fully.

Care for yourself, first of all. Nurturing yourself. No guilt. No fear.

Caring for others in the way they need to be cared for. That takes thought and courage. Sometimes, caring for another might really mean leaving them to their own devices.

Caring for strangers. Reaching out to those who have no one to care for them. Making a difference by smiling at a stranger. Doing small acts of kindness when no one is watching.

Caring for the Earth. Not wasting. Not hoarding. Sharing resources.

If you asked me how I’d like to be remembered when I’ve passed, I’ll tell you that I want people to say, ‘She was someone who walked care-fully.!

“It is inevitable that I will leave a legacy simply because I cannot walk through life without leaving footprints as I walk. Therefore, I would be wise to consider the path before I make the prints.”
― Craig D. Lounsbrough

 

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