•  My 66-day Journey of Healing Through Writing and Sharing - Anonymously Me - Women and Women's Issues

    An Empty Womb

    Recently, a neighbour made a very personal remark about us in the context of us looking after the community dogs in our residential complex. Talking to authorities about what he considers is wrong, he said that we fed dogs because we have ‘no one to love’! He thought he was insulting us since don’t have children. What a sad man! This made me think of the many couples and more specifically women in India who suffer so much for having an ’empty womb’! Here’s a first person account from a 35 something woman who has suffered due to this. An…

  • #MondayMusings - 100 Words - Women and Women's Issues

    The Last Day

    I wrote this very short piece ‘The Last Day’ some years ago. Today it seems more relevant than ever. The Last Day He seemed to take forever to get ready. He kept yelling, as usual.“When will you ever learn to fry an egg? Useless woman!”“How many times have I to teach you how to fold a d*** shirt?Today, I was so tempted to answer back. But I bit my tongue. I knew it was my last day there.At last, he left.When his car was out of sight, I turned on the gas, took my bag and shut the door behind…

  • Wellness - Women and Women's Issues

    What is Perimenopause?

    We are all too familiar with menopause. But what is perimenopause? Years before menopause even begins, the transition is called you guessed it – perimenopause. Menopause is when the ovaries stop releasing egg or slowly ceases to function. The period before menopause during which a woman’s body gradually begins to produce less estrogen is perimenopause. Although it is not an official medical term, perimenopause is used to describe and explain the “pre-menopause” stage of a woman. Perimenopause is different for each woman (so much like menopause itself). If the average age of women experiencing menopause is 51, perimenopause usually starts…