I’ve decided to get a divorce. Long overdue, but better late than never!

I’ve been trying hard to live like this – but things are just not working out. My spirit rebels. My energy is depleted. I can’t carry on this way any longer.

Yes, my divorce is final!

I’m so done with drama that I’m divorcing myself from it! (Got you, didn’t I?)

Looking back at my life, I find that I seem to invite drama or associate with it. I can honestly say that I am usually not the one to create it. But it comes right into my life anyway. I’ve had friends and family who seem to thrive on it and it wasn’t until recently, I’ve realized that I can’t take any more of it.

I needed to look into myself to see why drama kept finding me because I seriously believe this:
Drama just doesn’t walk into your life. Either you create it, invite it or associate with it! ย (ย The Good Vibe)

I realized it’s a lack of confidence in my own opinions, a need to be needed and just years of being the ‘venting wall’ that brought drama to my door.

No more. If you want drama – go find a another theatre and a new audience. Not my circus, not my monkeys, I remind myself, each time drama visits.

My very wise husband has been telling me for years that all it takes is to learn to ignore some people and/or what they say – it’s all about detatchmentย and a sure way to inner peace! What can I say? I’m a slow learner, but I’m getting there! ๐Ÿ˜‰

 

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