It’s only a few years ago that I realized I have always been an introvert and that for many years I pretended to be an extrovert. And now that I know this, I’ve begun to get comfortable with being quiet. In fact, I long for quiet.

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Have you noticed how
Anger is loud
Pain is vocal
Hate shouts
Revenge screams
Fear shrieks
Pride yammers
Insecurity calls
Discrimination rants
Discontent grumbles?

Have you noticed how
Day turns to night
Seasons change
Years go by
Children grow
Empathy listens
Care reaches out
Love embraces
Hope inspires
Hearts heal
Faith empowers
Quite quietly?

daisys_400I came across this book a couple of years ago – but didn’t buy it until recently. I’ve just started reading it and thought I’d share it with you: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain

About the book:

At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled “quiet,” it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society–from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.

Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical mega church, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects.

She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts. Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts–from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions.

Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a “pretend extrovert.” This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.

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Are you an introvert or an extrovert? Do you enjoy quiet?

This post is written for the letter ‘Q’ for the Blogging From A to Z April Challenge 2014.