In his book, The Happiness Advantage
When Sir Harry Johnston in 1901, an interprid explorer, came upon some pygmy natives caputred by a German explorer. He intervened on behalf of the pymies and paid for their freedom. In gratitude, the pygmies gave him pelts and skulls of the ‘unicorn’. However, the scientific community scoffed at Sir Johnston even when he insisted that he had seen the tracks of these animals.
But in 1918, a live Okapi was captured in the wild. And a decade later, the first okapi – a cross between a giraffe and a zebra – was successfully mated in Antwerp. These days, the ‘mythical’ creature is quite a common sight in zoos around the world.
Isn’t this beautiful creature such a brilliant example of a paradigm shift?
Making A Paradigm Shift
Earlier this week, I had a paradigm shift. Our neighbour’s driver is always hanging around our colony trying to find people to chat up with. Times without number I’ve seen his employer having to go looking for him. And the couple of times, I’ve interacted with him, I’ve found his behaviour a little odd. I grumbled about him although he had nothing to do with my life. Then on Monday, our maid told me that this guy had spoken to her the day before, telling her that he hadn’t come to work the previous day because it was his daughter’s 15th birthday. Six months earlier, she had a fall while playing in school and died instantly! When my maid told me this, I was so humbled. I completely understood his reason to talk incessantly. It’s his way of coping.
Change. That’s what a paradigm shift involves. Looking at something with new eyes. Allowing ourselves to be uncomfortable. Because change means stepping outside our comfort zones and seeing things from a whole new perspective.
It’s worth it. If you’re willing to change, you might actually see a unicorn! 😉
I’m linking into The One Word Linkup is hosted by Lisa of The Golden Spoons, Janine of Confessions of a Mommyholic, and Marcia of Blogitudes. This week’s prompt choices are: Small / Change.
Also linking into Write or Die Wednesdays hosted by Mia of The Chronicles of Chaos and Vashelle of Shelly’s Cabaret a bi-monthly creative writing prompt. Today’s prompt is :
You had me at unicorn! Haha. 🙂 I absolutely agree with what you said about allowing ourselves to be uncomfortable and bring about change. It’s something that is difficult for me, but I think it’s so worthwhile! Thanks for sharing and for joining us! xo
Mia recently posted..Write or Die Wednesdays: An Uncomfortable Situation
What a fabulous post! That is definitely a wonderful view of things, and learning all the time. Have an amazing week!
Stacey Gannett recently posted..This Momma’s Meandering Mondays 108!
A great reminder that things are not always as they appear on the surface, so it’s good to allow yourself enough room in your thinking to consider new information should it present itself. Thanks for sharing. #MidLifeLuv
learning something new about someone’s life can make a huge difference as to how we view their behaviour. I really enjoyed your post and I love your compassionate view on life 🙂 ~ Leanne
Leanne recently posted..when you’ve been married for a long time…
There was a person I knew casually whose behavior changed, quite suddenly, for the worse. It turns out she was a caregiver for her mother and was under a lot of stress. Sometimes, we don’t give people a chance. We just don’t know what is happening in their lives.
Alana recently posted..Local Saturday – Blueing It Again
I’ve been accused of being in favor of change for change’s sake, and I’m not sure that it isn’t too far from the truth, lol. I’ve had so many wonderful experiences, simply because of change. Change of view, change of route, change of taste, change of choice, change of adventure, and more.
Thank you for reminding again of its power! So glad to have connected thanks to @MidlifeLuv! Vive le unicorns! #liveyoursomedaystoday
Thanks for sharing Corinne. Humans can be complex yet we all have a story and behavior can hide our pain.
Beautiful stories to share, both share wisdom!
http://www.artadorned.com
Thank you for sharing these two stories! It is a good reminder that anything is possible AND though people’s behavior might trigger something uncomfortable inside of you, it might be there to teach you something about life.
I’ve been having a bit of a paradigm shift. When it comes to my family, I’ve always been a bit reserved in my affection (I can give you a few reasons as to why). Lately though, I think about the day that I lose my parents, grandma, brother, etc., and the emotional withholding just doesn’t seem all that appealing. I don’t want to have any regrets. I don’t want to look back and say “I wish my mom knew how much I loved her.” And even though it’s taken me out of my comfort zone, it gets easier to show love every day. 🙂
Thanks for the food for thought!
Two amazing stories! I heard a quote once that I cannot remember exactly, but it basically said we shouldn’t judge others because we never know what struggles they may be going through behind closed doors. It is a quote I have always remembered, but I definitely find it hard to put into practice sometimes.
Lisa recently posted..20 Ways Being a Mom Changes Your Perspective
That poor man. I adore your attitude. And once again, it kind of parallels a mental shift I had today. Last night I discovered that a neighbor girl stole a trio of miniature ceramic koi, probably thinking I’d forgotten about them as they were underneath something else in my fairy garden.
(I never grew up ~grin~)
Disappointed and annoyed, I got to thinking how I live in a peaceful neighborhood and that, quite frankly, nobody in my vicinity is actively trying to destroy me. It improved my attitude to look at how truly bad life is for so many folks. On another note, I did a few dumb and rather heartless things as a child, too. I’m definitely NOT going to start a neighborhood feud.
Best wishes! And thanks for making me smile over the lovely okapi image.
Darla M Sands recently posted..Tuesday Tidings for July, 2015
Absolutely do love your perspective on this and you are right if you do change even ever so slightly the possibilities are limitless! 😉
Janine Huldie recently posted..The More Things Change – Happy 6th Birthday Emma